Monday, December 20, 2010

Think With Your Heart and Feel with Your Mind

Greetings Everyone From the Land of Marriage(Terrific - Going Strong after 8 Months)!

Today I want to talk about Feeling With Your Mind and Thinking With Your Heart  - I know, I know an oxymoron, makes no sense(as my husband is fond of saying - what can I say he is a lawyer). Feeling with your mind regarding your Beloved means - trying to understand with logic and reason what makes the other half of your heart tick, his emotional core  - why he says or does something that completely baffles you -  if you put yourself in his place, walk around in his shoes for a moment - well, you get it.  You feel empathy in an objective way.  We all have life experiences that shape us - and certain perplexing reactions to situations from our partner that upset us or baffle us can be explained through our careful analysis plus a dose of compassion.  Then comes true understanding and empathy of the behavior or pattern.

One needs also to  think with your heart - My husband and I have had both very different and very similar life experiences(feeling unloved and unlovable for a large part of our lives, for example).   But when we feel empathy and logically examine the action it all makes sense -  it becomes emotional intelligence - heart and  mind come together and we arrive at that AhHa moment.  So in this season of joy and peace take time to feel with your mind and think with your heart when faced with behavior that makes "no sense".  You will reach that AhHa moment and won't be frustrated as to the why of a certain reaction.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

The Ah ha Moment and Total Knowing Between True Soulmates

Hi Everyone!

Well, have spent my first Thanksgiving as a married woman - and it seems like I have been with him and the doggies forever! What can I say about being with someone who loves you incredibly and whom you love with every fiber of your being....

I think true love, with the Beloved of your heart, is possible for everyone...not just the beautiful, the rich, the young, or the thin...everyone can connect with a positive soulmate.  People often ask me how I knew Byron was  "the one"  the other half of my heart - after a whole lifetime of being alone and not really dating? I'll tell you the secret...just give it to God and trust that He will bring the right person into your life -  and take every opportunity that is presented to you to meet people.  Me?  I had not been on a blind date since my 20's -  none of which had been good experiences but when the opportunity to meet a new person was presented to me, I took it.

I must admit it helps that I'm clairvoyant and saw what he looked like and was presented with 2 confirming Ah ha moments.  First, while meditating on Byron I was shown the scene from Gone With The Wind -  the one right in the beginning o the movie when war is declared and Ashley kisses Melanie from the horse(So I knew he would be a romantic Beloved and not hurt me) and second, when I was sitting with a friend in Leopold's Kafe in Georgetown and I was telling the friend I was just about to meet Byron - going down to my sister's 4 hours away to do so -  at that very moment a woman in a full wedding gown and her groom were walking across the patio for a photo shoot -  my friend looked at me and I looked back and we both nodded our heads!  So, dear friends,  those were the 2 Ah ha Moments.

Total Knowing came from the moment I met him.  I knew he was the one.  A calmness came over me and I felt like I had known him forever - and he told the people who introduced us - it was at their house that we had a our blind introductory dinner date -  that I was the woman he was looking for his entire life....end of story....

So pay attention to those inklings and really, really give it toGod.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Divine Timing Between Soulmates

Hello Everyone from the Land of Marriage!

Hope all my friends, both old and new, had a Happy Halloween.  My husband(still seems a tad peculiar to use that term -  I know, I know I'll get use to it!) and I spent Halloween sitting outside on the porch handing out candy to adorable children - and more than a few adorable doggies(we had doggie treats on hand).  As we sat there we wondered why we came to meet each other so late in life -  why didn't we meet 20 years before, married and cranked out one or two little hedgehogs( aka!?

 I believe it was Divine Timing that brought us together.  Divine Timing or God's Will of how and why people meet, of who and why things happen to people - both good and bad, is a subtle energy that runs through a lifetime.  Each partner has to be ready to meet the other half of their heart -  mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically.  Your soul has to be ready.   Now that is a tricky business - being ready to connect and love and accept the other person unconditionally, to be compassionate and kind and accept the other's humanity and life story.

When I met my husband I was finally ready.  I had accepted myself, loved what I did for a living(helping people with my gift) and was not looking to be "rescued".  And most important, after making my soulmate list while sitting in Barnes and Nobles a month before I met him, I gave the situation to God -  I accepted what He would bring or if He even would bring me my Beloved.  That, my friends is the key - giving it God and accepting what He brings us - and being OK with His decision.  That is hard because we humans want to control everything -  and really what do we really control - ever?

It is also realizing that perhaps if He had brought someone in sooner it would not have worked out.  We all go through life experiences that hone us -  like dross into gold - and then we emerge more calm, peaceful, non-judgmental and loving.

So for all those who are waiting patiently and not so patiently -  ALL things happen in God's way and time and our job is just to believe and have faith.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Forgiveness and the Spiritural Bond Between Soulmates

Greetings Everyone from the Land of Marriage!  -  Six months of marriage that is!

I can't believe it has been six months since I married my Beloved Byron!  The most amazing thing to me is how the transition between being single, involved and then married and involved is so seemless.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

The Intuitive Bond Between Soulmates

Greetings everyone from the Land of Marriage!  Yes, marriage can be wonderful and happy when 2 people are in sync and lousy when you are out of sync.

One thing I've really noticed between my husband and myself is how we read each other's thoughts and actions -  even doing the same thing at the exact moment -  like both getting up from a sound sleep at the same moment to use the bathroom -  or both saying at the exact moment we are thirsty.    But even deeper...knowing when the other is hurt, troubled, upset without the other ever indicating it and always being ready to help the other one -  with a kind word, a kiss or a hug.  That, my friends, is the key to happiness between anyone -  noticing the other's pain, compromising and giving love and loyalty.  Really, the intangibles - kindness, consideration, generosity, self-less giving and love and support -  without judgement or criticism -  and forgiveness and tolerance -  those are the keys to happiness -  the tangibles - wealth, power and position are fleeting -  only heart, mind, spirit and character last!

So, when your first instinct to be harsh or lash out -  stop a moment - count to 10 -  and just give...

Light and Love!

Sari Calvert Dail

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Finding the Other Half of Your Heart

Finding your Beloved,  I think is one of the hardest and yet at the same time easiest things to achieve -  with God's help and the inner guidance that comes with meditation - which is in fact, Listening to God...  For so long I tried to demand God that he bring me my soulmate  NOW-  until i surrendered and released the problem to God -  after making my soulmate list 2 years ago August -  I made it - actually sitting in Barnes and Nobles and drinking ice coffee and just said Ok God you take care of it -  this is what I want -  if you bring someone in fine -  if not I accept that too, whatever is Your Will.  The moment I did that I knew he would come -  and he did one month later!  My list was specific and full of intangibles -  kind, loyal, emotionally available, ready -  nothing about wealth, looks, etc.  That's the key, I think -  the intangibles -  qualities of character, heart, mind and soul that are already there and that last.  Also, being in a place in your life where you feel Ok about yourself -  your looks, your work, etc.  Never, never looking for someone to rescue you -  only you and God's love can do that.

Three Years before I had gone through the dark night of the soul -  poverty, 2 serious illnesses, depression - and came out of it by realizing the power of God's love -  that I was loved and always will be by God.

So -  make your list and know that God does answer prayers..  I am living proof of it -  married and so very, very happy and loved by a wonderful, kind man -  even at my age!

Friday, June 18, 2010

Hello Everyone!

I hope everyone has a great TGIF evening!  I must say that married life is absolutely wonderful -  when you have found your soulmate and are married it makes things that bother each other so much better -  when you are tuned in to the other's psyche you know how to help and heal that person when they are feeling bad.  All things are healed when you give it to God and ask His help.  An example of God's love happened yesterday.  My husband hadn't received a correspondence he wanted badly and was feeling dejected, rejected and depressed.  I gave it to God - asked that he receive the communication -  the moment I prayed for it - he received it.  So you see if you pray and surrender prayers are answered!

Have a wonderful weekend!

Monday, June 14, 2010

Welcome Back

I'm sorry I've been out of touch recently. I got married to my love, Byron on April 24. Within a month of doing my soulmate meditation and making a soulmate list, I met him and we married with a year and a half of meeting. I hadn't dated for twelve years before I met him, and we both knew the moment we met that we were destined to be together.
In fact, I saw him clairvoyantly a week before I met him. I knew a full year in advance where and how I would meet him. God is always waiting to fill our heart's desire when we are ready to receive. Let me help you with your journey to your soulmate by teaching you the meditation and listmaking exercises. I have a two CD collection on attracting your soulmate and healing yourself on my website. I also have a video on youtube. Or, set up a reading with me and I will be happy to work with you.
Love and peace,
Sari Calvert oops, I forgot, Mrs. Byron Dail


Friday, March 19, 2010

Welcome to my blog

Hello to all my friends, I wanted to welcome you to my new blog: Sari's Psychic Adventures. Please take a moment to add me to your blog list. Please feel free to give me feedback. Happy days & warm regards, Sari