Hello My Dear Friends!
It is been awhile since I've taken pen in hand and written. I have been enjoying married life. I sometimes wonder why God waited so long to bring me the other half of my heart. I think it was because I was a stubborn soul and wanted it when I wanted it. I refused to give it to God.
I mean really submitting my will, my wanting, to HIS timing and accept He would bring me True Love in HIS way. I finally accepted HIS plan with every fibre of my being. That is when God brought me Byron, My Beloved, My One True Love.
I got busy being happy.
There are really just 3 things that have to be in place before you connect with your true heartmate. You have to love yourself - hard thing to do sometimes, I know. You have to love what you do for a living and finally you are not looking to be rescued. No white knight is going to come along and magically make your life better.
You have to make it better! You have to be the change you want in your life! You have to be the type of person you want in your life. If you want kindness be kind. If you want honesty be honest. It is what I teach in my Soulmate Attraction Workshop/Bootcamp - see http://www.saricalvert.com/ .
It is what I said in my Soulmate Attraction video - http://www.youtube.com/
Be loving and you will attract love. Let your imagination soar and create your life - it is what I do in all my soulmate meditations - http://www.saricalvert.com/ via skype, phone, in person or groups.
Nothing really holds you back except negativity. Accept and love yourself and you will attract it back. Like does attract like on a soul level. If you want to talk more about it just email me: saricalvert@gmail.com.
That is it for tonight - I need to hold hands and watch the telly with my hubby and 2 children(of the 4 legged variety) - bark, bark!! Watch for my other blogs....On other subjects as varied as Halloween, Travel to sacred places, dating, wholistic healing, soulmate gifts, reincarnation, past lives, karmic bonds, and the magic of ipads........Yes, I've joined the 21st century! lol
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Monday, January 10, 2011
How Our Pets Help Us Find Our Soulmates
Pets are a piece of our soul connection to world. Many times pets have traveled many lifetimes with us and have been an important part of our life, giving us comfort, joy and a sense of continuity on earth. Our pets act as our truest friends. When someone comes into our life and they don't connect with our pets, we are not seeing the part of us that is not connecting to that person. It doesn't mean they aren't supposed to be in our life, it just means we are missing a piece of the whole picture with that person. Like a mirror, the pets in our life reflect who we are and when another comes into the picture, it may take time to form a new image. Ultimately, we have the opportunity to see ourselves clearly by connecting with our pets and how that connects with the people in our lives, soul mates included. Love and peace, Sari
For more on soul mate connections and meditations, see my youtube videos for attracting your soul mate
For more on soul mate connections and meditations, see my youtube videos for attracting your soul mate
Meditation For Attracting Your Soul Mate
Meditation For Attracting Your Soul Mate, by Sari Calvert, Clairvoyant, Intuitive Consultant and Meditation Coach. ... Medititaion "Soul Mates" ...
or go to my website http://saricalvert.com/.
Monday, December 20, 2010
Think With Your Heart and Feel with Your Mind
Greetings Everyone From the Land of Marriage(Terrific - Going Strong after 8 Months)!
Today I want to talk about Feeling With Your Mind and Thinking With Your Heart - I know, I know an oxymoron, makes no sense(as my husband is fond of saying - what can I say he is a lawyer). Feeling with your mind regarding your Beloved means - trying to understand with logic and reason what makes the other half of your heart tick, his emotional core - why he says or does something that completely baffles you - if you put yourself in his place, walk around in his shoes for a moment - well, you get it. You feel empathy in an objective way. We all have life experiences that shape us - and certain perplexing reactions to situations from our partner that upset us or baffle us can be explained through our careful analysis plus a dose of compassion. Then comes true understanding and empathy of the behavior or pattern.
One needs also to think with your heart - My husband and I have had both very different and very similar life experiences(feeling unloved and unlovable for a large part of our lives, for example). But when we feel empathy and logically examine the action it all makes sense - it becomes emotional intelligence - heart and mind come together and we arrive at that AhHa moment. So in this season of joy and peace take time to feel with your mind and think with your heart when faced with behavior that makes "no sense". You will reach that AhHa moment and won't be frustrated as to the why of a certain reaction.
Today I want to talk about Feeling With Your Mind and Thinking With Your Heart - I know, I know an oxymoron, makes no sense(as my husband is fond of saying - what can I say he is a lawyer). Feeling with your mind regarding your Beloved means - trying to understand with logic and reason what makes the other half of your heart tick, his emotional core - why he says or does something that completely baffles you - if you put yourself in his place, walk around in his shoes for a moment - well, you get it. You feel empathy in an objective way. We all have life experiences that shape us - and certain perplexing reactions to situations from our partner that upset us or baffle us can be explained through our careful analysis plus a dose of compassion. Then comes true understanding and empathy of the behavior or pattern.
One needs also to think with your heart - My husband and I have had both very different and very similar life experiences(feeling unloved and unlovable for a large part of our lives, for example). But when we feel empathy and logically examine the action it all makes sense - it becomes emotional intelligence - heart and mind come together and we arrive at that AhHa moment. So in this season of joy and peace take time to feel with your mind and think with your heart when faced with behavior that makes "no sense". You will reach that AhHa moment and won't be frustrated as to the why of a certain reaction.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
The Ah ha Moment and Total Knowing Between True Soulmates
Hi Everyone!
Well, have spent my first Thanksgiving as a married woman - and it seems like I have been with him and the doggies forever! What can I say about being with someone who loves you incredibly and whom you love with every fiber of your being....
I think true love, with the Beloved of your heart, is possible for everyone...not just the beautiful, the rich, the young, or the thin...everyone can connect with a positive soulmate. People often ask me how I knew Byron was "the one" the other half of my heart - after a whole lifetime of being alone and not really dating? I'll tell you the secret...just give it to God and trust that He will bring the right person into your life - and take every opportunity that is presented to you to meet people. Me? I had not been on a blind date since my 20's - none of which had been good experiences but when the opportunity to meet a new person was presented to me, I took it.
I must admit it helps that I'm clairvoyant and saw what he looked like and was presented with 2 confirming Ah ha moments. First, while meditating on Byron I was shown the scene from Gone With The Wind - the one right in the beginning o the movie when war is declared and Ashley kisses Melanie from the horse(So I knew he would be a romantic Beloved and not hurt me) and second, when I was sitting with a friend in Leopold's Kafe in Georgetown and I was telling the friend I was just about to meet Byron - going down to my sister's 4 hours away to do so - at that very moment a woman in a full wedding gown and her groom were walking across the patio for a photo shoot - my friend looked at me and I looked back and we both nodded our heads! So, dear friends, those were the 2 Ah ha Moments.
Total Knowing came from the moment I met him. I knew he was the one. A calmness came over me and I felt like I had known him forever - and he told the people who introduced us - it was at their house that we had a our blind introductory dinner date - that I was the woman he was looking for his entire life....end of story....
So pay attention to those inklings and really, really give it toGod.
Well, have spent my first Thanksgiving as a married woman - and it seems like I have been with him and the doggies forever! What can I say about being with someone who loves you incredibly and whom you love with every fiber of your being....
I think true love, with the Beloved of your heart, is possible for everyone...not just the beautiful, the rich, the young, or the thin...everyone can connect with a positive soulmate. People often ask me how I knew Byron was "the one" the other half of my heart - after a whole lifetime of being alone and not really dating? I'll tell you the secret...just give it to God and trust that He will bring the right person into your life - and take every opportunity that is presented to you to meet people. Me? I had not been on a blind date since my 20's - none of which had been good experiences but when the opportunity to meet a new person was presented to me, I took it.
I must admit it helps that I'm clairvoyant and saw what he looked like and was presented with 2 confirming Ah ha moments. First, while meditating on Byron I was shown the scene from Gone With The Wind - the one right in the beginning o the movie when war is declared and Ashley kisses Melanie from the horse(So I knew he would be a romantic Beloved and not hurt me) and second, when I was sitting with a friend in Leopold's Kafe in Georgetown and I was telling the friend I was just about to meet Byron - going down to my sister's 4 hours away to do so - at that very moment a woman in a full wedding gown and her groom were walking across the patio for a photo shoot - my friend looked at me and I looked back and we both nodded our heads! So, dear friends, those were the 2 Ah ha Moments.
Total Knowing came from the moment I met him. I knew he was the one. A calmness came over me and I felt like I had known him forever - and he told the people who introduced us - it was at their house that we had a our blind introductory dinner date - that I was the woman he was looking for his entire life....end of story....
So pay attention to those inklings and really, really give it toGod.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Divine Timing Between Soulmates
Hello Everyone from the Land of Marriage!
Hope all my friends, both old and new, had a Happy Halloween. My husband(still seems a tad peculiar to use that term - I know, I know I'll get use to it!) and I spent Halloween sitting outside on the porch handing out candy to adorable children - and more than a few adorable doggies(we had doggie treats on hand). As we sat there we wondered why we came to meet each other so late in life - why didn't we meet 20 years before, married and cranked out one or two little hedgehogs( aka children..lol)!?
I believe it was Divine Timing that brought us together. Divine Timing or God's Will of how and why people meet, of who and why things happen to people - both good and bad, is a subtle energy that runs through a lifetime. Each partner has to be ready to meet the other half of their heart - mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Your soul has to be ready. Now that is a tricky business - being ready to connect and love and accept the other person unconditionally, to be compassionate and kind and accept the other's humanity and life story.
When I met my husband I was finally ready. I had accepted myself, loved what I did for a living(helping people with my gift) and was not looking to be "rescued". And most important, after making my soulmate list while sitting in Barnes and Nobles a month before I met him, I gave the situation to God - I accepted what He would bring or if He even would bring me my Beloved. That, my friends is the key - giving it God and accepting what He brings us - and being OK with His decision. That is hard because we humans want to control everything - and really what do we really control - ever?
It is also realizing that perhaps if He had brought someone in sooner it would not have worked out. We all go through life experiences that hone us - like dross into gold - and then we emerge more calm, peaceful, non-judgmental and loving.
So for all those who are waiting patiently and not so patiently - ALL things happen in God's way and time and our job is just to believe and have faith.
Hope all my friends, both old and new, had a Happy Halloween. My husband(still seems a tad peculiar to use that term - I know, I know I'll get use to it!) and I spent Halloween sitting outside on the porch handing out candy to adorable children - and more than a few adorable doggies(we had doggie treats on hand). As we sat there we wondered why we came to meet each other so late in life - why didn't we meet 20 years before, married and cranked out one or two little hedgehogs( aka children..lol)!?
I believe it was Divine Timing that brought us together. Divine Timing or God's Will of how and why people meet, of who and why things happen to people - both good and bad, is a subtle energy that runs through a lifetime. Each partner has to be ready to meet the other half of their heart - mentally, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Your soul has to be ready. Now that is a tricky business - being ready to connect and love and accept the other person unconditionally, to be compassionate and kind and accept the other's humanity and life story.
When I met my husband I was finally ready. I had accepted myself, loved what I did for a living(helping people with my gift) and was not looking to be "rescued". And most important, after making my soulmate list while sitting in Barnes and Nobles a month before I met him, I gave the situation to God - I accepted what He would bring or if He even would bring me my Beloved. That, my friends is the key - giving it God and accepting what He brings us - and being OK with His decision. That is hard because we humans want to control everything - and really what do we really control - ever?
It is also realizing that perhaps if He had brought someone in sooner it would not have worked out. We all go through life experiences that hone us - like dross into gold - and then we emerge more calm, peaceful, non-judgmental and loving.
So for all those who are waiting patiently and not so patiently - ALL things happen in God's way and time and our job is just to believe and have faith.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Forgiveness and the Spiritural Bond Between Soulmates
Greetings Everyone from the Land of Marriage! - Six months of marriage that is!
I can't believe it has been six months since I married my Beloved Byron! The most amazing thing to me is how the transition between being single, involved and then married and involved is so seemless.
I can't believe it has been six months since I married my Beloved Byron! The most amazing thing to me is how the transition between being single, involved and then married and involved is so seemless.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
The Intuitive Bond Between Soulmates
Greetings everyone from the Land of Marriage! Yes, marriage can be wonderful and happy when 2 people are in sync and lousy when you are out of sync.
One thing I've really noticed between my husband and myself is how we read each other's thoughts and actions - even doing the same thing at the exact moment - like both getting up from a sound sleep at the same moment to use the bathroom - or both saying at the exact moment we are thirsty. But even deeper...knowing when the other is hurt, troubled, upset without the other ever indicating it and always being ready to help the other one - with a kind word, a kiss or a hug. That, my friends, is the key to happiness between anyone - noticing the other's pain, compromising and giving love and loyalty. Really, the intangibles - kindness, consideration, generosity, self-less giving and love and support - without judgement or criticism - and forgiveness and tolerance - those are the keys to happiness - the tangibles - wealth, power and position are fleeting - only heart, mind, spirit and character last!
So, when your first instinct to be harsh or lash out - stop a moment - count to 10 - and just give...
Light and Love!
Sari Calvert Dail
One thing I've really noticed between my husband and myself is how we read each other's thoughts and actions - even doing the same thing at the exact moment - like both getting up from a sound sleep at the same moment to use the bathroom - or both saying at the exact moment we are thirsty. But even deeper...knowing when the other is hurt, troubled, upset without the other ever indicating it and always being ready to help the other one - with a kind word, a kiss or a hug. That, my friends, is the key to happiness between anyone - noticing the other's pain, compromising and giving love and loyalty. Really, the intangibles - kindness, consideration, generosity, self-less giving and love and support - without judgement or criticism - and forgiveness and tolerance - those are the keys to happiness - the tangibles - wealth, power and position are fleeting - only heart, mind, spirit and character last!
So, when your first instinct to be harsh or lash out - stop a moment - count to 10 - and just give...
Light and Love!
Sari Calvert Dail
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